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Tuesday, November 5, 2013


The other day I was scrolling down my facebook newsfeed when I saw an disgracing pic of  a  vaja-ja and couldn't believe that this Chick had posted this so early in the morning, where just about everyone and their mama is on the book at that time. I was even more disturb by the comments that the men was sharing of the pic. I thought to myself; how can women call their self classy, a baddies, but feel the need to post pics of  their purse {in my Tamar Braxton voice} to get men attention. And all I can think is where is the self respect in this case... *sigh*  So I wonder about that thirst.

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Are you that thirsty?
I am so sick and tired; tired and sick of seeing hoes activity   it seem as nowadays that many ladies have no self respect for theirselves. Ladies why do you feel the need to post nude or half naked pics of your female goods on Facebook let alone to any social media site. Where is your standard, where is your moral and respect for thy self... Hello!  We all can't be a Nicki Minaj... {I'm just saying}

There was a time when many women cherished their bodies much like a sacred temple. Where only a noble man, one who respected and loved her, had access to her girly goods. This woman would not share her body parts for the entire world to see.  But now we are living in the time of social media, so I suppose that don't apply anymore... *roll eyes* Chile-Boo the thirst is not that real or needy for that type of attention, ladies hold your own classy character. And if you're a single lady I know it can get lonely at time. But hold your composure together girl, and cease with revealing your girly goods just to get men attention, and if you have to get men attention in that way, he sure damn well may not be that guy for you. Some men standard may just be as low as yours. Shoot from what men post also we no they don't have standards at all, atleast most of them.

Now don't get me wrong I'm stressing this point to not pass judgment on women, nor am I saying that women shouldn't enjoy themselves sexually. But I just think it is disrespectful to show on social media your cooch... I'm just saying send that Sh*t in a private message or something...! Ladies just learn to value, worshiped, respected, and cherished yourself. And I know some of us can't handle this real talk but at the end of the day you the one is portray as a hot mess, and then you be on those "hoes be like statuses".

Is you rocking that crooked smile, preach on it J. Cole:
"Love yourself, girl, or nobody will
Oh, you a woman? I don't know how you deal
With all the pressure to look impressive and go out in heels
I feel for you
Killing yourself to find a man that'll kill for you
You wake up, put makeup on
Stare in the mirror but its clear that you can’t face what’s wrong
No need to fix what God already put his paint brush on
Your roommate yelling, "Why you gotta take so long?"
What it's like to have a crooked smile
This crooked smile"

"To all the women with the flaws, know it's hard my darling
You wonder why you're lonely and your man's not calling
You keep falling victim cause you're insecure
And when I tell you that you're beautiful you can't be sure
Cause you see that no one wants you back and it got you asking
So all you see is what you lacking, not what you packing
Take it from a man that loves what you got
And baby you're a star, don't let 'em tell you you're not
Now is it real? Eyebrows, fingernails, hair
Is it real? if it's not, girl you don't care
Cause what's real is something that the eyes can't see
That the hands can’t touch, that them broads can’t be, and that’s you
Never let 'em see you frown
And if you need a friend to pick you up, I’ll be around
And we can ride with the windows down, the music loud
I can tell you ain’t laughed in a while
But I wanna see that crooked smile"

-J. Cole
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